Where are all the great men??

I don't mean that men aren't good or so.. I just want to know where the 'great' men are. Not the ones that necessery look good, but that's just a bonus.. ;p But men that just want a woman to love and care for.. Men that actually want fanily, a house, kids and all that.
First: Recently I feel like most guys (I've come a cross some of them actually) just want a fysical realtionship. Nothing wrong with that if the other partner is in on it and (I can't point out how important) that there's no adultery present! So where are they?? I guees I have to mention that I had this guy once, he was ten years older. And that didn't work out so well, so I'm not going up again.. And I see that most of the guys I like or thrive with are actually younger.. At least on paper :p
Second: Why me? Young at heart, mind and soul, but scratched and torned on the outside :p I don't see why anyone want to have a fysical relationship with me?? And why not a real relationship for that matter..?? I have usually been in a position that I thought otherwise since I'm as far away from a barbie you can get.. Well, not buttugly, but no miss universe.. I rather go to a party in a shirt and pants, than put on a short cut skirt.. I just don't get it...
Third: Why are all the good ones taken?
Is it strange that I get confused??

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